Most people have a dream. They dream that they will grow old surrounded by their beautiful wife, sweet children, and grandchildren. But for so many, this dream never becomes a reality. How many people pledge allegiance to each other, vow to spend their lives together, but yet it doesn’t seem to work out. For one of many reasons, things are not as exciting as they used to be. When you first got married, the only thing you could think about was each other. So many happy hours were spent together. Cuddling under the blankets with popcorn and your favorite movie. Long walks through the forest, enjoying each other’s company. Numerous short vacations just to get away, either to the beach or golfing resort. You did so many things to have fun. To enjoy the pleasures of life, to live and love.
But later things started turning a little sour. Maybe having kids was a big surprise. Never in your life did something take up as much energy, mental energy, as having kids. Married life has a tremendous amount of stress. Its harder work than anything you ever experienced. It comes as a shock to most people. They were happily married just a few years ago, and now they almost never get to relax, with some peace and quiet. Without noise from the kids.
Here are some scary statistics. 50% percent of first marriages, 67% of second and 74% of third marriages end in divorce, according to Jennifer Baker of the Forest Institute of Professional Psychology in Springfield, Missouri. These numbers do not include people that are unhappy within their marriage. So as married people, what can we do to be happy and stay happy.
Know that marriage is hard work. The hardest work that you have ever done in you life. It requires constant work and effort in order to keep a marriage going. So what can you do to keep your wife happy and content within your marriage?
One of the keys to a happy marriage, is showing your appreciation. As a man, your responsibility is to make your wife happy. A woman gets her satisfaction when she is appreciated. When she feels that her husband cares for her and appreciates her, this fills her with the sense that she is loved and cared for. When a woman is happy, the family is happy.
One way to make sure your wife fells happy is to buy her gifts.
You were always buying her gifts when you were dating and engaged, So why does she not deserve gifts now. She works a lot harder when she is taking care of a house and family then when she was single. Even if she had a full time job, taking care off kids is the hardest job in the world.So what can you do? Buy her some perfume. Try wholesale perfume. When you buy wholesale perfumes, you are getting the same thing only a whole lot cheaper. Wholesale perfumes are the same quality, just for a fraction of the price.
When you give her the perfume (the wholesale perfume), put on a smile and say “I love you.” This small gesture will help you more then you ever imagined.
© 2012 Forest Institute
